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在韩国,女性遭受职场霸凌似乎已是家常便饭。

  • 下班后,仍能收到老板的工作指示;
  • 新入职场,却成了专职跑腿,天天帮忙买咖啡;
  • 公司聚餐,一个劲儿地被老板劝酒……

更别说还有无处不在、见缝插针的职场性骚扰了。

图/《就算敏感点也无妨》

但在很多人眼里,上面这些事都是职场菜鸟的一堂“必修课”。

它们往往被套上“这是种锻炼”“这也是为了你好”的说辞,一旦表示抵触,就有可能戴上“没情商”的帽子。

就算新人苦不堪言,也只能自我麻痹地去相信这些“教导”。

所幸,一条新鲜出炉的法律似乎将要改变这一切!

 

73%的上班族曾遭职场欺凌

7月16日,韩国《禁止职场欺凌法》正式施行。

根据韩国KBS新闻16日的报道,《禁止职场欺凌法》明文规定:

用人单位或员工利用其在公司内的地位或关系,超出工作范畴,给予其他员工身体、精神和情绪上的痛苦或导致工作环境恶化的行为属欺凌行为。

看看都把新垣结衣逼成什么样了 图/《我们无法成为野兽》

除了在办公室和工作地点之外,在社交媒体、出差地点、聚餐场所以及私下见面时出现的类似的行为也将被认定为欺凌。

这也就意味着,饱受职场性骚扰折磨的韩国女性,终于有了反击的机会!

此外,让女职员跑腿泡咖啡、强制员工表演才艺、聚餐迟到要求罚酒等行为将统统被列入职场欺凌。

据了解,在公司遇到欺凌,或者是目睹到有人被欺凌时,任何人都可以向公司人事部门进行申报。

此外,公司方面不得对申报者和受害者采取解雇等不利于受害者的处分,违反这一规定,将被处以3年以下有期徒刑或3000万韩元(约人民币17.5万元)以下罚金。

法案一出,自然是几家欢喜几家忧。

“忧”的是高层管理人员,他们觉得,“身体、精神和情绪上的痛苦”这个定义太主观了,很容易被恶意利用。

一家集团子公司的组长则表示,该法的标准模糊不清,可能会引发阻塞言路、不再聚餐的后果。

我不听我不听我不听! 图/《我们无法成为野兽》

“喜”的当然是下级职员。

大韩护士协会去年针对7275名会员进行的调查结果显示,40.9%的受访者回答“近一年来在职场内受过欺负”。

据人权委员会统计,韩国73%的上班族曾遭职场欺凌。

有职员期待着,《禁止职场欺凌法》的实施,能让职场内形成相互尊重的氛围。

职场欺凌的本质是权利的下放,生活在权利阴影下的女性们更是职场霸凌的最大受害者。

对她们来说,这条新法的实施无疑是一种救赎。

 

凭什么“新人就该多干活”?

不仅是韩国,同为邻国的日本也早在今年的“三八”国际劳动妇女节当天,由日本内阁会议向国会提交了一揽子法案。

法案禁止了任何形式的职场性骚扰,要求企业制止滥用权力或欺凌。

而根据这些法案,性骚扰明确属于“禁止行为”。

鉴于许多企业抱怨难以区分性骚扰与上级对下级的业务指导,这份法案还特地设定了指导原则,明确列举了具体案例,来说明那些情形属于职场性骚扰。

对于这些他国的法案,国内的声音主要分成了两种:

一种是力挺,建议国内也来一套;

另一种则并不看好,认为举报者很有可能会被“穿小鞋”,甚至丢工作,难以改变韩国严重的职场霸凌现象。

但这样的法案真的只是徒劳吗?我看未必。

对我们来说,韩国推出的新法更像是一种提醒:

  • 原来,职场霸凌也可以不被看作是一件小事;
  • 原来,法律也能够保护职场新人的权益!

这条法律最终会取得怎样的成果还不得而知,但它的出现无疑是值得鼓励及仿效的。

在中国,职场霸凌也并非稀罕事。

根据微博上的一个投票结果,有超过一半的职场人曾有经历过职场霸凌。

评论区更是出现了“最烦的就是‘新人就该多干活’这句话”。

还有网友调侃说,“钉钉”这样的软件在韩国会被告到破产。

而除了让人头痛的职场霸凌,职场中还有不少对女性的歧视。

眼下正是入职季,不少姑娘已经初步适应了职场,内心的疑惑与不解却积攒得越来越多。

现在,就跟着职场博主黛眉绛唇一起,逐个击破职场路上的拦路虎吧!

 

职场大佬经验大分享!

很多女孩子都会有一个想法,觉得如果我干得好,老板应该会看到我的努力,我到底该不该主动跟老板提升职加薪?

而针对这个情况的话,我想说一下性别上的一个差异。

图/《未生》

女性在职场上常常会去被动等待,因为她相信领导是公平的,领导可以看到她的付出和业绩,那么该属于她的东西迟早会属于她。

如果自己去提,还可能让人家觉得自己很强势,因此会不好意思。

男性在面对这个问题时,态度却恰恰相反。

可有时候就是应该为自己争取,因为除了你自己,没有其他任何人能够时时刻刻对你的切身利益去负责!

另外,还要不断提升你个人的硬实力和软实力,这也能成功升职加薪的关键。

图/《未生》

一方面要注意积累自己做过的事情。

比如行政类的工作,平时都是一些小事情,这个时候你就要留心了。

积累一些平时做的工作笔记,像帮公司节省的成本或者帮公司提升了工作效率,这些你都可以整理出来。

另一方面情商也很重要。

如果你职场情商很低,不但可能会得罪你的上级、你的同事,而且升职加薪这样的机会你也抓不住。

图/《我,到点下班》

除此之外,我还接到过一个读者的求助。

她说自己在某交通公司工作,前段时间公司放出了几十个管理人员的岗位,结果男生选了30多个,而女生只选了9个人。

当她研究了所有入选人的简历后,发现公司女性的条件普遍都要比男性好,可最后选出来的人里面,男性占了绝大部分。

图/《Live》

这是一个非常典型的职场性别歧视了,面对这个问题我们可以从四个角度出发。

第一个要知道这不是你的错,它是一个职场的性别歧视,它是不对的。

第二,你可以联合公司里的其她女性同事,共同来争取自己的权益。

如果这个公司有比较正规的申诉渠道,你也可以和大家一起写申诉函、进行联合申诉,让领导层知道你们的想法。

第三,我觉得还是要努力工作。

因为我相信任何一个企业,只要不是一个很短视的企业,它终究还是要去看你真正的工作实力。

领导刚开始可能会有一个性别刻板印象,就觉得男的比较强,但是你可以用自己的实力说话。

最后,如果你所在的公司一直是男权文化的氛围,那可能女性同事确实会受到一定的歧视。

这时候我们可以看一下自己,只要自身工作能力强、经验又很足,也不妨离开这个舒适区,跳槽一个更好的平台去寻求一个更长足的发展。

不要再用“必经之路”、“大家都是这么过来的”来粉饰职场霸凌!

当一件事被反复用程度副词来修饰时,你就应该表示怀疑。

“就算有5000万人声称某件蠢事是对的,这件蠢事也不会因此成为聪明之举。”

歧视就是歧视,霸凌就是霸凌。

姑娘们,汉子们,请勇敢对职场霸凌说“不”!

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